Autistic Dating Features and Membership Tiers
Every feature on Autistic Dating was built with autistic adults in mind. Here is what you get on free, VIP, and VIP+ plans, and why each feature was designed the way it was.
Built for how autistic adults actually connect
Mainstream dating app features assume neurotypical social fluency. Profile prompts that reward quick wit. Mechanics that create urgency. Matching systems that prioritise fast visual assessment over genuine compatibility. Autistic Dating's features start from a different premise: that genuine connection comes from shared interests, clear communication, and time to think.
The features below are the result of building around that premise. Some of them will feel familiar. Some are absent on purpose. And a few are specifically designed for the autistic experience of dating.
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Profile and matching
Full profile creation
Photo, bio, interest tags, and relationship goals. Interest tags help you find people who care about the same things, which is a more reliable compatibility signal than photos alone.
Member browsing and search
Browse members by location, interests, age, and other filters. VIP and VIP+ members access advanced filters for more precise matching.
Swipe and match
Like profiles you're interested in. When it's mutual, you match and can start messaging. No games, no complex decision trees.
Swipe rewinds (VIP)
Changed your mind? Rewind your last swipe. Useful when you are browsing quickly and second-guess a decision.
Messaging and communication
Secure private messaging
Send and receive messages with your matches. Written communication by default, no video call pressure, no voice note requirements. Communicate in the format that suits you.
Unlimited messaging (VIP)
Free members can receive messages and have limited outgoing messages. VIP and VIP+ members have no message limit. The most common reason members upgrade.
Block and report
Block any member at any time. Reports go directly to our moderation team. No explanation required: block first, the team handles the rest.
No expiry mechanics
There is no 24-hour match expiry on Autistic Dating. Message when you are ready. There is no urgency pressure built into the communication mechanics.
Visibility and discovery
Profile view insights (VIP)
See which members viewed your profile and who liked you, even if you haven't matched yet. Removes the guesswork from who is interested.
Priority profile placement (VIP)
VIP and VIP+ members appear higher in search results and browse listings, increasing visibility to other members.
Weekly profile boost (VIP+)
VIP+ members receive a weekly boost that increases profile visibility significantly for a defined period. Useful for members who want to increase their reach.
Extended match history (VIP+)
Access your full match and messaging history. Useful for members who have been active for longer and want to review past conversations.
Community and content
Member articles and community feed
Read articles from the autistic dating community, share your own perspectives, and follow what other members are writing and discussing. All tiers.
24/7 customer support
Written support channel available around the clock. No automated bot, a real person responds to every report and query. All tiers.
Priority support (VIP+)
VIP+ members receive priority handling on support requests. Shorter response times for billing, technical, and safety queries.
Early access to new features (VIP+)
VIP+ members are first to try new features before they roll out to the full platform. An opportunity to shape the product direction through early feedback.
Features by membership tier
| Feature | Free | VIP (£6.99/mo) | VIP+ (£7.99/mo) |
|---|---|---|---|
| Full profile creation | Yes | Yes | Yes |
| Browse members | Yes | Yes | Yes |
| Swipe and match | Yes | Yes | Yes |
| Receive messages | Yes | Yes | Yes |
| Send messages | Limited | Unlimited | Unlimited |
| Community articles and feed | Yes | Yes | Yes |
| 24/7 customer support | Yes | Yes | Yes |
| Advanced search filters | No | Yes | Yes |
| Profile view insights | No | Yes | Yes |
| Priority profile placement | No | Yes | Yes |
| Swipe rewinds | No | Yes | Yes |
| Discreet billing | Yes | Yes | Yes |
| Weekly profile boost | No | No | Yes |
| Priority support | No | No | Yes |
| Extended match history | No | No | Yes |
| Early feature access | No | No | Yes |
| VIP+ badge | No | No | Yes |
Features subject to change. See pricing page for current rates and full terms.
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Free membership includes everything you need to start. Upgrade to VIP or VIP+ any time from your account settings.
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